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Energy and Enlightenment

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Life is Energy, Empathy, Enjoyment and Enlightenment

A Tarot Energy Reader’s Perspective

Life is energy.

Everything we see and experience — people, thoughts, emotions, relationships, objects, nature — exists as movement within an energetic field.

You and me. Our homes and our mobile phones. Rivers and mountains. Birds and animals. Even the silence between words.

Nothing is truly separate. Everything vibrates, communicates, and interacts through energy.

From a tarot energy reader’s perspective, life is not only about events. It is about understanding how energy flows through four essential experiences: energy itself, empathy, enjoyment, and enlightenment.

These four are not separate stages. They are interconnected layers of conscious living.

Energy — The Foundation of Experience

Energy is the invisible language behind everything.

Every thought carries frequency. Every emotion creates vibration. Every intention shapes movement.

Many people focus only on actions and outcomes, but energy readers observe what exists beneath actions — the emotional currents, the subconscious patterns, the silent signals shaping reality.

Two people may say the same words, yet their energy can feel completely different.

Tarot works through this principle. The cards do not create reality; they reflect energetic patterns present in the moment.

They reveal the emotional and psychological atmosphere surrounding a situation.

When you understand energy, you begin to realize that life is not happening randomly. It is responding to vibration.

Soul reminder: Change your energy, and your experience begins to shift.

Reflection questions:

What emotional energy do I carry daily?

Do my actions reflect my inner alignment?

Quantum Understanding — Reality as Energy

Quantum physics teaches that matter is not truly solid. At its core, everything is made of energy interacting through fields and frequencies.

Observation influences outcome. Intention shifts probability. Attention directs energy.

This mirrors spiritual teachings that say consciousness shapes experience.

Your thoughts are not passive. Your emotions are not temporary. They are energetic signals interacting with the world around you.

Soul reminder: You are not only living in reality; you are participating in shaping its energetic field.

Reflection questions:

What emotional frequency do I carry most often?

How might my thoughts be influencing my experiences?

Empathy — Feeling the Energetic Field

Empathy is the ability to sense energy beyond spoken language.

It is not only emotional sensitivity. It is energetic awareness.

An empath notices when someone’s words do not match their energy. They feel the heaviness behind a smile or the peace behind silence.

In tarot readings, empathy allows the reader to connect with the deeper emotional truth beneath the question being asked.

But empathy requires balance.

Feeling energy does not mean absorbing everything. True empathy includes boundaries — compassion with awareness.

Soul reminder: You can feel deeply without losing your centre.

Reflection questions:

Do I confuse empathy with responsibility for others’ emotions?

Where do I need stronger energetic boundaries?

Enjoyment — The Forgotten Spiritual Practice

Many people believe spirituality requires seriousness or sacrifice. But enjoyment is an essential part of energetic balance.

Joy raises frequency. Presence softens resistance. Playfulness restores flow.

When we forget enjoyment, life becomes heavy and forced. Energy becomes stagnant.

Tarot often reminds clients to reconnect with enjoyment — creativity, laughter, beauty, and simple pleasures — because these experiences restore alignment.

Enjoyment is not distraction from growth. It is nourishment for the soul.

Soul reminder: Joy is not separate from spirituality. Joy is spiritual energy in motion.

Reflection questions:

What brings me natural lightness?

When did I last experience joy without guilt?

Enlightenment — Awareness of Interconnection

Enlightenment is not a distant spiritual state. It is the realization that everything is interconnected through energy.

When you understand this deeply:

Judgment softens. Presence increases. Choices become more conscious.

You begin to live not from reaction but from awareness.

Destiny, relationships, and experiences are no longer random events. They become energetic dialogues between your soul and the universe.

Tarot becomes a mirror reflecting consciousness — showing where energy flows freely and where it asks for healing.

Soul reminder: Enlightenment is not escaping life. It is understanding it deeply.

Reflection questions:

Am I reacting unconsciously or responding with awareness?

What is life teaching me through current experiences?

Living Through Energy Awareness

Life is not only about reaching a destination. It is about learning to move consciously through energy.

Energy gives foundation. Empathy creates connection. Enjoyment restores balance. Enlightenment brings understanding.

When these four align, life feels less like struggle and more like flow.

Tarot energy reading is not about controlling destiny. It is about illuminating the energetic truth of the present moment so that you can walk forward with clarity and consciousness.

Tarot becomes a mirror — not of fate, but of awareness.

To your higher awareness and enlightenment,

— Roop Lakhani

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Destiny and Destination

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Destiny, Dedication, Devotion and Destination

An Energy Reader’s Perspective on Tarot, Soul Contracts and Conscious Evolution

Many people come to tarot seeking answers about destiny.

They ask: What will happen?

Is this relationship meant to be?

Am I creating my future or is everything already written?

From an energy reader’s perspective, destiny is both guided and participative. Some parts of our journey are given, while some are chosen consciously along the way.

Relationships — Given and Chosen

Some relationships come into our lives from birth — family bonds, early environments, and soul connections that shape our emotional foundation. These relationships are often part of deeper karmic agreements.

Other relationships are chosen through our decisions, awareness, and inner evolution. They reflect the level of consciousness we carry at that time.

Yet even in choice, there is destiny.

We believe we are creating everything independently, but often we are responding to energetic patterns already present within our soul journey.

Tarot reflects this beautifully. Certain connections feel karmic, familiar, or intense because they are linked to soul lessons already woven into our path.

Soul reminder: Not every relationship is forever, but every relationship carries purpose.

Reflection questions:

Which relationships feel deeply familiar or karmic?

What lessons might these connections be inviting?

Karma and Destiny — The Invisible Framework

In spiritual philosophy, destiny is influenced by different layers of karma.

Prarabdha karma — the portion of past karma that is already activated and unfolding in this lifetime. These are experiences or circumstances that feel inevitable or strongly guided.

Sanchit karma — the accumulated karmic impressions from past experiences and lifetimes. These form the deeper energetic blueprint.

Kriyaman karma — the karma we create through present choices, actions, and awareness.

Destiny is not separate from karma. Prarabdha and sanchit karma create the stage, but kriyaman karma shapes how we move within it.

Tarot readings often reveal where prarabdha karma is active — situations that continue to appear until understood — and where kriyaman karma offers the power to change direction.

Soul reminder: You are not only living destiny; you are responding to it through conscious action.

Reflection questions:

Where do I feel life repeating certain lessons?

How are my present choices shaping my future energy?

Dedication and Devotion — Walking the Path

Destiny offers direction, but dedication is required to walk the path consciously.

Dedication is the willingness to learn from experiences rather than resist them. Devotion is trusting the deeper intelligence guiding your journey, even when the outcome is unclear.

When dedication and devotion align, destiny begins to unfold with more clarity.

Tarot often shows where effort is needed and where surrender is required. Both are sacred parts of growth.

Heart Intelligence and Head Intelligence

Destiny does not ask us to choose only logic or only emotion. It asks for alignment between heart intelligence and head intelligence.

The heart carries intuition and truth. The mind carries clarity and discernment.

When these two energies are disconnected, confusion arises. When they align, decisions become grounded and authentic.

Purity of intention and inner conscience become powerful guides.

Let your choices be informed not only by fear or desire, but by awareness and integrity.

Soul reminder: Purity and conscience are silent guides that keep your karma aligned with your higher path.

Reflection questions:

Am I listening to both my inner wisdom and practical understanding?

Does this choice feel aligned with my deeper values?

Destination — The Evolution of Consciousness

Destinations are not just external achievements. They are milestones of inner transformation.

Every experience — whether joyful or challenging — becomes part of your evolving consciousness.

Tarot reveals not only where you are going but who you are becoming.

When we understand destiny through the lens of karma, devotion, and conscious choice, life stops feeling random. It begins to feel meaningful.

Tarot becomes a mirror — not of fixed fate, but of living consciousness.

Why Destiny Sometimes Brings Difficult Relationships as Soul Accelerators

Many people ask during tarot readings:

If destiny is guided by divine intelligence, why do painful or challenging relationships enter our lives?

From an energy perspective, not all relationships come to give comfort. Some arrive to awaken consciousness.

Difficult relationships are often misunderstood as punishment or bad luck. But in many cases, they function as soul accelerators — catalysts that push us toward growth we may otherwise avoid.

The Purpose Behind Challenging Connections

Some relationships carry strong karmic energy. They feel intense, magnetic, or deeply familiar from the beginning. These connections activate emotional patterns quickly because they are linked to lessons already present within the soul’s journey.

Such relationships may bring:

Unresolved inner child wounds to the surface

Lessons around boundaries and self-worth

The need to learn emotional independence

Opportunities to break repeating ancestral or karmic patterns

The discomfort is not random. It is revealing areas where

consciousness is asking to expand.

Soul reminder: A difficult relationship is not always meant to stay forever. Sometimes it comes to transform you.

Reflection questions:

What has this relationship revealed about my emotional patterns?

Where have I discovered strength or clarity through challenge?

The Mirror Effect

In tarot energy reading, relationships often appear as mirrors. They reflect aspects of ourselves — fears, desires, wounds, or unexpressed truths.

When a relationship triggers strong emotional reactions, it often indicates an inner space that seeks healing or awareness.

This does not mean accepting unhealthy behavior. Instead, it means recognizing the deeper lesson behind the experience.

Reflection questions:

What emotional reaction keeps repeating in this connection?

What part of myself is being asked to grow or heal?

Karma and Soul Acceleration

From a karmic perspective, some relationships activate prarabdha karma — experiences already set in motion for this lifetime.

These connections accelerate growth by creating situations where we must choose differently:

Choosing self-respect instead of people-pleasing

Choosing truth instead of silence

Choosing awareness instead of unconscious repetition

Tarot helps identify these karmic accelerators by showing repeating cycles, emotional intensity, or lessons that cannot be ignored.

Soul reminder: Growth is not always gentle. Sometimes transformation begins where comfort ends.

When the Lesson Completes

A powerful shift happens when awareness increases.

Either the relationship transforms into a healthier dynamic, or its purpose naturally completes.

Many people believe that destiny means permanence, but sometimes destiny’s role is temporary — guiding you toward inner evolution rather than lifelong connection.

The real question is not only:

Is this relationship meant to be?

But also:

What is this relationship helping me become?

Walking with Consciousness

Difficult relationships invite us to integrate both heart and head intelligence.

Feel with compassion.

Observe with clarity.

Choose with conscience.

When purity and awareness guide your actions, even challenging experiences become sacred steps in your soul’s journey.

Tarot does not judge these connections. It reveals their energetic purpose so that you can move forward with understanding rather than confusion.

Tarot becomes a mirror — not of suffering, but of awakening.

Would you chose to do karmic reading or relationship destiny reading with me?

— Roop Lakhani

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Why do couple have extra marital relations?

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Why do extra-marital affairs happen?

There is never only one reason. Affairs usually happen because of a combination of emotional needs, personal patterns, and relationship dynamics.

1. Emotional disconnection (not always visible outside)

Many affairs begin when someone feels:

• unseen or unheard

• emotionally lonely inside the relationship

• misunderstood or emotionally unsafe

When emotional intimacy reduces, people may unconsciously seek validation elsewhere.

But important point: emotional disconnection does NOT automatically justify an affair — it explains the emotional environment where it becomes more likely.

2. Unmet psychological needs

Sometimes one partner:

• needs appreciation, admiration, or emotional reassurance

• seeks novelty or excitement (dopamine seeking)

• wants to feel desired again

If communication is weak, these needs may be fulfilled outside instead of addressed within.

3. Personal inner wounds (not only relationship problems)

Many affairs are connected to personal patterns:

• fear of intimacy

• avoidance of deep emotional work

• validation addiction

• unresolved childhood wounds (seeking attention or approval)

• low self-worth needing external confirmation

So it is not always about the partner — sometimes it is about the individual’s internal emotional structure.

4. Toxic or unhealthy relationship dynamics

Yes — toxic relationships can increase the possibility because:

• emotional safety is missing

• communication becomes defensive or critical

• partners feel trapped or unseen

But again — toxic dynamics explain vulnerability; they do not automatically cause affairs.

5. Opportunity + emotional vulnerability

Sometimes affairs happen when:

• emotional distance already exists

• a new person provides listening or emotional connection

• boundaries are weak

Affairs often begin as emotional connections before becoming physical.

Signs of Toxic Relationships

Toxicity is not just fighting — it is a pattern that slowly drains emotional well-being.

Emotional Signs

• Feeling emotionally exhausted after interactions

• Walking on eggshells

• Fear of expressing true feelings

• Constant criticism or belittling

• Lack of emotional support

Communication Patterns

• Blame instead of understanding

• Gaslighting (making you doubt your reality)

• Silent treatment or emotional withdrawal

• Conversations turning into power struggles

Behavioural Signs

• Control or manipulation

• Lack of accountability

• Disrespect for boundaries

• Inconsistent affection (hot-cold behaviour)

Energetic Signs (what tarot readers often sense)

• One person emotionally over-giving, the other emotionally unavailable

• Repeating conflict cycles without resolution

• Emotional confusion or heaviness in readings

Important insight for your tarot practice

When clients ask about affairs, often

The deeper question is often not about the affair itself. The deeper question is:

Am I emotionally safe, valued, and truly connected in this relationship?

When I do an energy reading through tarot, I do not look only at events or actions. I look at the emotional energy between two people.

Let me tell you, today I had a session that beautifully reflected what authentic tarot energy reading really means — and how trust and energetic alignment create a deep connection between reader and client.

A client approached me with a question about her friend who has been married for 13 years. Initially, she shared very little information. In fact, she was observing and testing how accurate the reading would be. This happens often. Many people come with curiosity, doubt, or a need to verify whether the guidance they receive truly resonates.

As I began the reading, I did not rely on the details she provided. Tarot energy reading is not about collecting external facts; it is about tuning into the energetic patterns reflected through the cards.

The cards revealed emotional stagnation, hesitation, and a lack of courage to speak openly within the marriage. They showed someone feeling emotionally stuck, unable to make a clear decision, and holding back from expressing truth.

There was also a strong indication of emotional involvement outside the marriage — not just as an event, but as an energetic escape from unresolved emotional dynamics.

As the session unfolded, the client began sharing more information.

She realized that the insights coming through were aligned with reality. She then asked deeper questions — whether separation or divorce was likely, and how she could guide her friend. What was important here was not predicting an outcome but understanding the energetic state of the person involved.

I explained that tarot does not force destiny or create decisions. Tarot reveals the current energetic pathway. The cards indicated that the person lacked the courage to speak up and take decisive action, suggesting that the outcome depended on personal growth and emotional clarity rather than external timing.

This is where authenticity becomes essential.

An authentic tarot reading is not about telling clients what they want to hear. It is about reflecting truth with compassion and responsibility. When a reader stays grounded in authenticity, clients feel seen and understood. Trust begins to grow naturally because the guidance resonates on a deeper emotional level.

Faith also plays a powerful role. Faith is not blind belief in the reader; it is openness to insight. When clients allow themselves to listen without resistance, the reading becomes a space of awareness and transformation rather than simple prediction.

Tarot energy reading is essentially the interpretation of emotional and energetic patterns. The cards act as symbolic mirrors that reveal subconscious dynamics, emotional blocks, and soul lessons. They help us see what is hidden beneath the surface — fears, desires, avoidance patterns, and areas where growth is required.

Tarot coaching takes this process a step further. Instead of only describing what is happening, tarot coaching guides clients toward conscious choices. It helps them understand how their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors influence their reality.

Through coaching, clients learn how to respond differently, how to communicate with awareness, and how to create healthier relationship dynamics.

In sessions like this, the goal is not to judge relationships or label people as right or wrong. The goal is clarity. When clarity arises, clients feel empowered to support themselves or others with wisdom instead of confusion.

Authenticity builds connection. Energy reading creates understanding. Tarot coaching provides direction.

When these three come together, the reading becomes more than information — it becomes a meaningful experience of self-awareness and growth.

Tarot helps me understand what is happening beneath the surface — the unspoken feelings, the emotional patterns, and the energetic dynamics that are shaping the relationship.

Through tarot, I guide you to explore your emotional needs versus expectations. Sometimes we expect our partner to understand without expressing clearly what we need.

The cards often reveal where needs are not being voiced, where emotional nourishment is missing, or where one person is giving more energy than they are receiving.

Communication patterns also become visible in tarot. Certain cards show whether conversations are open and honest or filled with avoidance, defensiveness, or silence.

Tarot helps us see whether communication is creating connection or creating distance.

Another important layer is personal emotional wounds. Many relationship challenges are connected to inner child patterns, past hurts, or fear of rejection.

Tarot does not judge — it reflects where healing is needed within us so that we can respond consciously instead of reacting from pain.

I also observe the overall relationship dynamics.

Is there balance or imbalance?

Is one person emotionally available while the other withdraws?

Is there mutual growth or emotional stagnation?

Tarot shows the energetic flow between two individuals and helps us understand why certain patterns keep repeating.

An energy reading is not about blame or predicting betrayal. It is about awareness. When we understand the emotional and energetic truth of a relationship, we gain the power to make conscious choices — to communicate differently, to heal old wounds, and to create healthier connections.

Tarot becomes a mirror of the soul. It helps you see where you feel safe, where you feel unseen, and where your heart is asking for deeper alignment.

The 10 Strongest Early Warning Signs Most People Ignore in Marriage

These signs usually appear quietly in the beginning and are often dismissed as “normal adjustment,” but over time they create emotional imbalance.

Communication Avoidance

Important topics are postponed, ignored, or brushed aside. Problems remain unresolved instead of being worked through.

Emotional Invalidation

When feelings are minimized with phrases like “you are overreacting” or “you are too sensitive.” This slowly erodes emotional safety.

Lack of Accountability

Apologies without change. The same patterns repeat but responsibility is never truly taken.

One-Sided Emotional Effort

One partner constantly initiates conversations, repairs conflicts, or tries to maintain harmony while the other withdraws.

Growing Emotional Distance

Less sharing, less emotional curiosity about each other’s inner world.

Subtle Disrespect

Sarcasm, dismissive tone, or jokes that undermine confidence. These small behaviors gradually damage trust.

Avoidance of Vulnerability

Refusal to discuss deeper emotions or fears. Emotional intimacy remains superficial.

Control Disguised as Concern

Checking excessively, monitoring decisions, or limiting independence under the label of “care.”

Repeated Boundary Crossing

Ignoring personal limits or pushing beyond comfort zones even after being told.

Loss of Self

Feeling like you must shrink, adjust excessively, or silence parts of yourself to maintain peace.

These are early energetic signals that something needs attention before resentment or disconnection grows.

Hidden Red Flags That Look Like Love but Are Actually Control

Many controlling patterns appear loving on the surface, which makes them harder to recognize.

Overprotectiveness

Presented as “I care about you,” but actually reduces independence or freedom.

Constant Checking

Frequent calls or messages framed as love, but driven by insecurity or control.

Decision-Making Without You

“I know what is best for us” can slowly remove your voice from the relationship.

Jealousy Presented as Passion

Extreme jealousy is often mistaken for deep love, but it reflects insecurity and possessiveness.

Isolation from Others

Discouraging friendships or family connections while claiming to want “more together time.”

Love Bombing Followed by Withdrawal

Intense affection initially, followed by emotional distance when expectations are not met.

Guilt-Based Affection

Making you feel responsible for their happiness or emotional stability.

Helping Without Respecting Autonomy

Doing things “for you” but without considering your choices or consent.

Conditional Kindness

Affection or approval given only when you behave in certain ways.

Sacrifice Narratives

Statements like “I do everything for you” used to create emotional pressure or obligation.

From a tarot energy perspective, these dynamics often appear as imbalance between giving and receiving, emotional suppression, or power struggles hidden beneath surface harmony.

Tarot is not only about predicting outcomes. It is about understanding emotional truth.

The cards reveal:

Unspoken needs

Communication patterns

Inner emotional wounds

The energetic balance between two people

When clarity comes, decisions become easier. When awareness increases, relationships either transform or show their true direction.

Tarot becomes a mirror — not of fate, but of consciousness.

To your better awareness and energy reading for healthy relationship,

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Kuldevi and Kite flying experience

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The Silent Grace of the Kuldevi:

A Journey to Khodiyar Ma at Kuntej, Khodal Dham, and Virpur

Some journeys are not planned by the mind; they are guided by something far deeper.

This visit—to our kuldevi, Khodiyar Ma at Kuntej, to Khodal Dham, and to Virpur Jalaram Bapa Temple—felt like a gentle reminder of the invisible forces that quietly shape our lives. I always believe kuldevi silently protects and blesses our family and we hardly pay gratitude.

And the trip was followed with kite flying at Ahmedabad.

Virpur: Where Faith Moves in Silence

What struck me most at Virpur was not grandeur, but discipline born out of devotion.

Thousands of people stood in long queues, yet there was an unexpected silence. Mobile phones were voluntarily set aside. Footwear was removed without instruction. People moved forward not in haste, but in surrender.

There were boards clearly stating no donations. Prasad was served freely to thousands, without cost, without condition.

This simplicity reflects the life of Jalaram Bapa himself—a saint who lived and taught through seva, humility, and unwavering faith. His presence reminds us that true spirituality does not ask, it gives.

It does not impress, it transforms. Even today, devotees believe his grace silently removes burdens and restores peace to restless hearts.

Khodal Dham: Strength Wrapped in Stillness

From Virpur, the journey continued to Khodal Dham—an expanse of serenity spread across acres of land. The architecture stands majestic yet grounded, powerful yet peaceful. It does not overwhelm; it holds you.

Though dedicated to Khodiyar Ma, the temple complex honors many Devi avatars—each representing a different shade of Shakti: protection, nourishment, courage, and compassion. Walking through the space feels like moving through layers of the divine feminine—each form reminding us that strength can be gentle, and power can be nurturing.

Khodal Dham inspires unity, faith, and inner courage. It gently urges devotees to stand firm in dharma while trusting the unseen support of the Divine Mother.

Khodiyar Ma and the Crocodile: Power Over Fear

Khodiyar Ma is uniquely depicted riding a crocodile (Magar)—a symbol that carries profound spiritual meaning.

The crocodile is a creature feared for its raw strength and primal instinct. Maa riding it signifies mastery over fear, chaos, and untamed emotions. It tells us that divine power does not destroy fear—it rises above it.

Living both in water and on land, the crocodile represents balance between emotional depth and material reality. Through this vahana, Khodiyar Ma teaches us how to remain grounded while navigating emotional currents.

The crocodile also symbolizes unseen dangers and subconscious threats. Maa’s presence assures protection—not just from visible harm, but from inner turbulence we may not even recognize.

At a deeper level, the crocodile reflects our lower instincts—fear, anger, survival patterns. Khodiyar Ma does not reject these human aspects; she rides them, guiding them with awareness. This is the essence of true strength: conscious mastery, not suppression.

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The Invisible Role of the Kuldevi

A kuldevi does not appear daily in rituals or words. Her role is subtle. She works through intuition, protection, redirection, and timely pauses. Often, we only recognize her presence when we look back and realize how many unseen dangers were avoided, how many wrong turns quietly corrected.

This journey reaffirmed a simple truth:

We are never walking alone.

The kuldevi stands behind generations—holding, guarding, and guiding—whether we acknowledge her daily or remember her only during moments of surrender.

She protects us and our familys well being.

Faith does not always shout. Sometimes, it moves in silence—just like the queue at Virpur, just like the calm strength of Khodiyar Ma, and just like the unseen hand that continues to protect us, generation after generation.

This was just not possible without some cousins and relatives staying nearby who accompanied us and also guided us.

Followed by Kite flying uttarayan day at Ahmedabad with cousins was another joyful experience.

After years, we were looking forward for this day.

As we all know what Uttarayan is famous for.

Uttrayan reminds us —

A kite doesn’t rise by force.

It rises by balance, timing, and trust in the wind.

May you learn when to hold on

and when to let life lift you.

Til is hard. Jaggery is sweet.

Life is both.

Uttrayan gently whispers —

Stay warm in your heart,

soft in your words,

and sweet in your intentions.

As kites colour the sky,

remember this:

You don’t have to prove your worth by flying higher than others.

Rise only as much as your soul feels light.

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Facts of Life- 40 years ago and now

13:12:00

Facts of life

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ. ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ ᴍᴀɴʏ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀғʀᴀɪᴅ ᴏғ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴇᴀsʏ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ. ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ɪᴛ ɪs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ɪs sᴏ ᴇᴀsʏ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴡᴇ ɢᴏᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀs ᴛᴏ ᴏᴜʀ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴠɪʟʟᴀɢᴇʀs ᴡᴇʀᴇ ғʟᴏᴄᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴊᴏʙs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛᴏᴡɴ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ғʟᴇᴇɪɴɢ ғʀᴏᴍ ᴛʜᴇ CITY ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴇᴀᴄᴇ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ғᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ. ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴅɪᴇᴛs ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ʀɪᴄʜ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ ᴀʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʀɪᴄʜ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴏɴʟʏ ᴏɴᴇ ᴘᴇʀsᴏɴ ᴡᴏʀᴋᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ ғᴀᴍɪʟʏ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴏɴᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅ.

*40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ*, ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴛᴜᴅʏ & ʀᴇᴀᴅ ʙᴏᴏᴋs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴜᴘᴅᴀᴛᴇ ғᴀᴄᴇʙᴏᴏᴋ & ʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴡʜᴀᴛsᴀᴘᴘ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇs.

ғᴀᴄᴛ of ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ's ʟɪғᴇ....

Let's look at why this is happening

Why Life Feels So Different Today

A healer’s and spiritual perspective on the changing world

Many people say, “Life was simpler 40 years ago.”

Relationships felt stronger. Families stayed together. Neighbours knew each other. People seemed less anxious about the future.

But instead of seeing this only as decline, a healer sees something deeper — a massive collective transition of consciousness.

Humanity is not simply changing; it is evolving through emotional, social, and spiritual transformation.

Let us understand what is really happening beneath the surface.

1. From Survival Living to Emotional Awareness

Forty years ago, most people lived in survival mode. Society followed fixed roles — marriage, children, career, duty.

There was less questioning.

Today, people are asking:

Who am I?

What do I truly want?

What is my purpose?

This awakening brings freedom — but also confusion and fear.

When individuals begin questioning old structures, certainty disappears. And uncertainty often feels uncomfortable.

So what looks like instability is actually the beginning of self-awareness.

2. The Healing of Generational Patterns

Earlier generations often suppressed emotions to maintain harmony and survival. Respect existed, but sometimes it came from fear, obligation, or social conditioning rather than emotional understanding.

Today’s generation is challenging authority, setting boundaries, and seeking emotional validation.

Parents now learning to respect children is not necessarily a loss — it reflects a shift toward emotional equality and conscious parenting.

This is part of ancestral healing: old patterns are being questioned so healthier ones can emerge.

3. Relationships Are Moving From Duty to Conscious Choice

In the past, marriage was easier because it was socially expected. Divorce was difficult because emotional suffering was often hidden.

Now, relationships require emotional compatibility, communication, and personal growth.

People are no longer willing to remain where their soul feels unseen.

From a spiritual perspective, this shift reflects a movement from karmic obligation toward soul-aligned partnership.

4. Technology Has Connected Minds but Disconnected Presence

We live in an age of constant stimulation.

Social media creates comparison, pressure to appear successful, and reduced real-world connection.

Where neighbours once formed community, digital platforms now shape identity.

The nervous system rarely rests — and this contributes to anxiety, loneliness, and emotional fatigue.

The issue is not technology itself but unconscious usage without grounding.

5. The Cost of Modern Achievement

Earlier, one income could sustain a family because expectations and lifestyles were simpler.

Today, identity is often tied to success, productivity, and financial achievement.

People work more but feel less fulfilled because external success cannot replace inner connection.

Spiritually, humanity is learning that abundance without alignment creates emptiness.

6. Fear Around Parenthood and Commitment

Modern individuals are more aware of emotional wounds and trauma.

This awareness creates hesitation:

Will I repeat my parents’ mistakes?

Am I emotionally ready?

Can I give a child the life they deserve?

What appears as fear is often deeper consciousness.

People are no longer entering roles blindly; they want to do it consciously.

7. The Shift from Outer Image to Inner Healing

Earlier, appearing prosperous or socially acceptable mattered most.

Today, people are exploring therapy, spirituality, inner child healing, shadow work, and emotional intelligence.

This means humanity is moving from external identity toward inner authenticity.

And transformation always feels chaotic while it is happening.

The Spiritual Truth Behind These Changes

Humanity is moving from:

obedience → awareness

suppression → expression

duty → conscious choice

external validation → inner alignment

This transition feels uncomfortable because old systems are dissolving while new ways of living are still being created.

As healers and coaches, our role is not to judge the past or criticize the present — but to help people integrate wisdom from both.

The past carried stability.

The present carries awareness.

The future will require conscious balance between the two.

A Soul Reminder

It is easy to romanticize the past and criticize the present, but every era carries both wisdom and wounds.

Forty years ago, life offered stability, strong community bonds, clear roles, and a slower rhythm that allowed people to feel rooted. Yet many emotions remained unspoken, individuality was often sacrificed for acceptance, and people silently carried burdens they never learned to heal.

Today’s world offers freedom, self-awareness, emotional language, and the courage to question patterns that once went unnoticed. Yet with this freedom comes uncertainty, loneliness, comparison, and the pressure of constant change.

The past taught us commitment.

The present teaches us consciousness.

Neither time is better — both are teachers.

As souls evolving through generations, we are not meant to reject what came before nor blindly embrace everything new.

Our task is to integrate:

the depth of connection from the past

with the emotional awareness of the present.

When we honour tradition without losing authenticity, and embrace growth without losing compassion, we create a new way of living — one where relationships are both rooted and conscious, where success includes inner peace, and where progress does not cost us our humanity.

The real question is not whether life was better then or now.

The real invitation is to ask:

How can I bring presence, kindness, and awareness into this moment so that the future becomes wiser than both the past and the present?

Some More Soul Reminders

The past gave us roots, the present gives us awareness — the future asks us to integrate both with wisdom.

Life was not better then or worse now; every era carries lessons meant to awaken the soul in different ways.

The past taught us commitment, the present teaches us consciousness — true evolution happens when we honour both.

Progress is not about leaving the past behind, but about carrying its wisdom forward with greater awareness.

When we stop comparing generations and start integrating their lessons, we create a wiser way of living.

The real transformation is not outside in society — it is within the human heart learning to live more consciously.

Stability without awareness limits growth, and freedom without grounding creates chaos — balance is the soul’s path.

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