How many times have you been upset, angry, or hurt and chosen to stay silent, hoping the other person would just understand? But did they?

Has anyone ever told you, "You seem different these days..."?
Or have you noticed someone behaving strangely with you, but you couldn’t figure out why?

Here’s the truth—feeling upset, hurt, angry, jealous, or even resentful is normal. Yes, normal! Because we are human, and emotions are part of our nature. But the real question is:

Do you want to hold on to these emotions, or do you want to feel good and at peace?

If your answer is "I want to feel good and peaceful," then ask yourself—what are you doing to make that happen?

I know, sometimes a thought crosses your mind—"Why should I be the one to bend and talk?" That feeling could come from ego, righteousness, or pride. But think about it—if the relationship truly matters, would you let these things stand in the way? When love and warmth mean more than being right, wouldn't you rather choose connection over distance?

• Have you tried expressing how you feel instead of bottling it up?
• Have you asked yourself why you’re feeling this way in the first place?
• Are you holding on to emotions that weigh you down, or are you willing to let them go?

Because ultimately, you decide what matters more in your relationships—open communication or silent misunderstandings? Clarity or confusion? A light heart or a heavy one?

Sometimes, one honest conversation can change everything. Maybe the other person also wants to talk but is holding back, just like you.

So, ask yourself today—
"Am I willing to take the first step towards a lighter, happier connection?"

If Talking helps then why not?

To your best connection and communication 

Roop Lakhani 

www rooplakhani.co.in

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